How do I get my boyfriend back under my thumb after 6 months?

I was just in this same situation with my boyfriend. The whole thing where everything started out perfect. It’s unfortunate that things can’t stay that way, right? Well, no. They can’t stay that way. Things between me and him will never be the same, they’ll be so much better. They ARE so much better. All you have to do, is let time heal things. Slowly progress & improve your relationship with him. Don’t move too fast. But think back to day 1, and up until the point where things started going wrong. Think of the little things you did that made him fall madly in love with you, and start to be that girl again. Then you can start going out again, and doing all of the fun stuff you used to do. Make him remember exactly what it was that made him feel the way he used to. He probably still feels that way, and doesn’t even realize it. All you have to do hun is make him realize it. If you move to fast though, it will fall apart just as quickly again. Move slow, and don’t give him the idea that your desperate. He needs a challenge. Guys love challenge. If he’s not responding positively to your actions, stop. Once he realizes that you’ve stopped, he’ll want you more. He’ll want the attention. When you notice a great improvement in your relationship, spill your heart out to him. Tell him exactly how you feel. And hopefully, he feels the same way. If it’s meant to be, it will be. And if not, then there’s some out there whos ready to give you his heart and make you even happier. I know it sucks to hear it, but hopefully you and your man will work out just as good as my boyfriend and I did. Best of luck hun, let me know how things go. And if you need any more help or don’t like my advice let me know and I’ll come up with something new.

Time, patience, and love can heal anything. Much love <3