How do I get my boyfriend back?

The people in my life that were supposed to love me have always trampled on my heart so I never let friends get to close, especially boyfriends, that was till I met Graham. I wasn’t interested at first, but he really persisted, eventually I started to learn to to trust him and then even rely on him. For some reason he went from doting on me to being really nasty. He was like another person, completely different from the caring, gentle person that I fell in love with. One minute he proposed to me, the minute he’s braking up with me. I think he resents me for the fact that his music career isn’t going where he wanted it to. What do I do to get him back?? He’s been reall horrible to me, but I know deep down that thats not who he is. He was crying on the phone to me today, but he seems very resolute about breaking up with me.

Answer #1

Doesnt really sound like hes very mature about how to handle things. I mean, just because his music career isnt going where he wants, doesnt justify him treating you so bad! Hes obviously shown who he is by how he deals with situations! Why would you want someone who treats you so horrible back?

Answer #2

He needs some space and alone time to work out what he wants, only he can work it out so be there for him, but also remember he is hurting you and being mean to you, so give him some time becos he is only going to lower your self esteem by the things he says.

Answer #3

talk to him and see wat his problems mayby hes under pressure make him feel ok and safe .ask him out also again cuz if u think thers something inside of him much more then let him show u it

Answer #4

i think you should talk to hima nd see wqat is borthering hima nd then if you think he likes you ask him back out

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