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Okay, so the deal is I was going out with this guuy and I feel in love with him. but I have major trust issues and I dumped him because I was scared that he was goign to hurt me or something but I still really love him 1 year later.
However I just found out that hes been going out wwith this other girl that just so happens to be my best friend from primary school and I was looking on his bebo page and he said that he started loving her 2 years ago , we were going out at that time. I am now really really hurt, my plan back fired hes happy and smiling and happy and I ended up being hurt.
how do I get him back because I dont want to tel him because im afraid it wont be reciprical or that I get even more hurt and embarass my self even more
My ex did the same. He was always 6 mos ahead. Guess he wanted to make it look like they were dating longer. You cant let someone go, then expect to get them back whenever you feel like it. If he wanted you back, I'm sure he would have let you know by now. You may think you will be hurt for the rest of your life, but you won't be. What seems like an impossible situation to get out of, will change with time. You will realize that there is more to life than just one guy...
The best thing you can try and do right now is move on, and you won't be hurt for the rest of your life, not even close. Don't let your life fall away because of some guy. Make the most of what you've got, there is a lot more out there.
~"If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back to you, it wasn't yours to begin with."~ ~"We are the ones who suffer when we hold on to past grievances"~
well you're saying he loved this girl while you two were going out that is dishonest he didn't tell you in the first place. I would never get back with this guy he's a jerk. he would probably just try to hurt you again. if you truely loved him you would be happy for him that he is happy even if it's another girl.
dont try to get back with him ... what if he cheats on you and belive me no one likes to be in that postion
Why would you want to get him back if he was being dishonest in the first place?
he wasn't being dishonest I just have general trust issues
