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Im tired of being a cute friend I wanna be boyfriend material im 16 and I really wanna be in a relationship
The thing that attracts a women most is strentgh of character, I'm a girl I would know lol... Too many guys out there are either "really really nice guys who don't know how to be real men" or "really big a**holes who treat women like crap"
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your obviously the really really nice guy So, number one is you have to decide what you want (or who) then the secret to flirting is this: Give your full undivided attention to the person you like and then suddenley ignore them or go to talk to someone else
keep them guessing this is only for the beggining! You have to make a girl want your attention, not feel like she can't get rid of it Have a life, be busy, have more important things going on A girl likes the challenge of having to attract a guy and number one important thing is when she tries to get your attention give it to her in small doses When this goes on for awhile, she will wait for you to be the one to take the next step... this is how you do it: It sounds mean but it works... Make her try to get your attention and don't give it to her for quite awhile, ignore her in a nice way NOT MEAN Then out of the blue, tell her you like her and that your interested in her and you don't want to be her friend anymore, that shes beautiful (important), important to you, and you care about her. Then WALK AWAY... tell her you'll give her time to think about it but if she doesn't feel the same way... no big deal. then leave her to think about it, if she says shes not interested then tell her that you can't be her friend becasue of the way you feel about her and end it at that.
Usually if a girl wants your attention but doesn't want to commit, then saying this will make her realize in she can't have your attention as a "friend", that she's gotta decide what she wants, and it'll also make her RESPECT YOU a lot more for giving her an ultimatum.
Remeber in all of this, don't be mean or cocky or whiny, be calm and assertive. CALM AND ASSERTIVE remember that... women are very attracted to calm and assertive men, it means they're strong and fierce, but gentle and trustworthy, calm and assertive is the way too be.
-Good Luck!
just be yourself..have self confidence and feel free to talk to girls..be friends to them first, then you could feel which one you are attached to.. besides, you could even anticipate which girl likes you! So, everything starts with friendship!
sry bud there isn't anything you can do but be your self a worth girl will come around
u can get girls 2 notice you by walkin around wit you penis hangin out. HAHAHA!
dont rush you will find some 1 whn you least expect it I did..
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