How do I get a guy that doesn't know who I am to like me?

So, there is this guy. and he is two grades above me. I have a huge crush on him, but he doesn’t know that I exist, at least that I know of. I smile at him and he smiles back. But I don’t know what else to do, and I really want it to work!

Answer #1

I hope he does!! like he’s in my gym class and I smile at him all the time, and once in the hall he smiled at me first and I smiled back. and I don’t know, I just feel like itd be weird if I went up to a guy two grades above me and just started talking.. like hey! I don’t know I think id be a creep.

Answer #2

I dont think it’s weird :) If he smiles at you when you smile at him, then he probably does know you exist right? I think you should talk to him.

Answer #3

Get over your fears and talk to him, you literally have nothing to lose and plenty more to gain. If you really feel as if you can’t talk to him then just wait for the feelings to pass, you labeled it as a crush and these feelings don’t usually last very long so you need to give it time.

If you want to make the attempt to talk to him, bring a friend along so you can have a group chat and not be as scared. You don’t need to do this all alone, this might pose a slight problem for you because he might lay more attention on your friend then you, but if you can’t handle this then imagine when your his girlfriend and other girls are gonna be trying to get at him. I would also advise you to stop thinking about what your going to do and just talk to him. Thoughts generally lay doubt into your head and that’s not productive. Keep your head cleared, take a deep breath and say hello.

Hope this helps.

Answer #4

thankss. but like wouldnt you think it was just a bit creep if a girl two grades below came up to you and started talking to you?

Answer #5

Yeah I would try to talk to him, just get to know him first and find out what his interests are. Then see if your feelings are stronger and if he likes you back. Hope it helps!!! thnx for answering my question!!! :)

Answer #6

talk to him. lol

Answer #7

im scared thats creepy.

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