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How do I forget the pain?

I feel awful after a relashionship, He treated me like I was a little girl or like I was stupid, just because I did the right thing. I tried to satify him always. Him and his ex-girlfriend treated me as though I was naive and they were going to play a game on me, like sleeping with each other when each already had a partner. They can play a game on themselves. They have nothing right together they cheated on each other in the past. I can only let time pass and time is very slow. How do I forget how he treated me? I am kind of blind of his acts because I wanted to love him. He did a whole lot of other stuff also and I am very hurt.

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Answer #1

take it as an experiance!! and move on. be with your firneds as much as possible,to take your mind of this low life!! the worst tim eis when your alone and you begin to think about all the things he done, and wunderin if it was your fault or not I was in the same situation I was with this guy for 3 and a half years! it does hurt but trust me as time goes by the pain will begin to heal and dissapear. I delt with all the pain by going out with my friends and drinking and haveing fun!, realising I was to good for him and that I missed being single and the more fun you have the more the pain dissapears xx

Answer #2

Sounds like he was very immature and was looking to play games with you. Obviously you care a lot about him so what you do is you take this relationship and you learn from it and let it make you stronger. Don’t let it break you down, he’s not worth that! It may take time, but eventually you’ll be able to move on from it and you’ll realize what you will and what you won’t tolerate in your future relationships! Whatever you do, DON’T EVER get back with him or any other guy that treats you that way, and his ex girlfriend sound like a bitch, I’d just let her have him.. seems like a good enough punishment to me! Plus, they seem perfect for each other, both immature! haha! Make sure to keep yourself busy and don’t spend too much time sitting around thinking of him, get rid of everything that reminds you of him and MOVE ON and let time pass you by and heal whatever pain your feeling and that’s all that’s gunna do it!

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