How do I feel lust?

This may sound weird, but my boyfriend and I are totally in love. I love being with him, he makes me happy, I make him happy. We cuddle, snuggle, kiss and hug. BUT we haven’t had s*x yet. We have a great relationship, but how do I bring lust into it? I don’t feel that I’m ready to do it with him yet, but I don’t think I feel any lust for him. I don’t know if I want him in that way, for whatever reason. What should I do? I feel confused, and it’s obviously hurting the relationship b/c my boyfriend wants to do it, but I don’t..but then he also feels bad for constantly asking me about it. I think I still feel uncomfortable being intimate with him, I know I’m not doing anything bad but I feel awkward (we’ve been going out for 1 year and 3 months, you think I’d be comfortable already!). What could I do to feel not so awkward? How do I feel lust for my boyfriend?? A relationship definitely has to have love, but it also needs lust.

Answer #1

OKAY FIRST THERES IS SOMEONE CALLED LUST AND LOVE AND YOU LOVE HIM AND ITS BETTER TO LOVE THEM THEN TO LUST YOU DONT WANT TO BRING LUST INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU GOT LOVE!! AND IF YOUR NOT READY THEN IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU AN CARES ABOUT YOU THEN HE WILL RESPECT YOU FOR THAT AND WAIT UNTIL YOUR READY

Answer #2

I thought love is supposed to make you feel lust…Try being more passionate and physical…That should spark things up…

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