How do I deal with my jealousy?

First off it’s a natural reaction with someone you care about to get jealous at times. However, you can’t let it get the best of you. I always think of it this way when I do find myself in a situation like that, they just want something/someone that you have. If you trust your guy you have nothing to worry about.

It sounds like she has a patteren of doing this, with your friend’s man, your man and who knows who elses. You can talk to her and get her off you back, but dealing with my past g/f talking doesn’t work well it just seems to feed them and let them know it bothers you. When she comes around just take control of the situation you run the conversation and remember who he’s with.

I’m a guy and I get jealous when I’m with a woman, but I do little things to let them know I here and respect it. There will also be someone eventually testing you. Just keep calm and like I said don’t let her see you weak, be strong. Again its fine for you to feel that way. Also your b/f should pick up on the fact that she’s flirting and help put the situation out, but we can be slow sometimes. So if anything talk to him if you feel comfortable. Because you can’t control who talks to him, but they should respect you. He would want the same thing. I really hope this can help you in some type of way.