How do I change myself?

Im 13 years old but I feel like I look sooo old. :) I really like the way I look when I was younger before all this… pimple and knowledge of adult things. I just want to feel PURE. So how do I get the pimples off, and the niceness in? I get REALLY nervous and my heart starts to pound HARD, and it happens when in not around anyone too! I feel depressed and blah but I wasnt like that when I was younger. How can I look about… 11, OR CUTE(when you look good, you feel good I guess)?, and feel like a normal kid should? :/ Im trying not to blame my dad for this even though he left me and came back at 7 years old and left again without saying bye. :( I blamed myself for the whole thing and church isnt really working. I let go of my appearence too.

Sorry for the long post!(My feelings really reflect my looks and I hate it! I want to be pretty!)

Answer #1

I used to have really bad acne and now I use burts bees face scrub in the mornings in the shower then when I get out of the shower use a daily moisturizer and then whenever I need to wash my face.. like before bed I use clearasil stay clear daily pore cleansing pads to get all the dirt off from the day then use a moisturizer and then if I have any zits or ones forming I put a little bit of Clean and Clear advantage acne spot treatment on it and it helps minimize zits.. it works amazing for me and cleared up pretty much all of it and fast.. I don’t know if that will work for you but it helped me..

I used to have the same kind of problems when I was younger and over the years I realized that the only way to truly become beautiful and feel good about yourself was confidence.. I mean I know this sounds weird but everynight before you go to bed or every morning just tell yourself your beautiful.. it will actually help but I don’t know just try and feel comfterbul with yourslef and feel good about yourself.. others will notice.. good luck I hope I helped.. any more questions feel free to ask

Answer #2

Alright - its hormones. all the depression and everything. yeahh I got that way too. I think every teenage girl does. for the pimples use clean & clear or acne control (walmart) it wors soo well for me. and the pure thing. I know like everything - not that I wanted to know any of it. I guess you just find out more stuff as you get older. but sometimes its for the best - so your not COMPLETELY clueless when you are all gorwn up. lol. I’m also 13. just turned 13 in june. we just grow up :) and take every moment as it comes. Live Your Life. and hun church does help. Pray. and Believe. if you have a positive attitutde - (keep your head held high)you will have the best time of your life! if you want to talk more about this message me. trust me I go through this all the time. Good Luck! <3 :)

Answer #3

Hey, I still have some acne and I’m 18. Everyone hates it when they have pimples so I say why be self-conscious about it? Easier said than sone though but if you can master that in high school you will actually have fun there!

Also, I sometimes go to the beach. I find that seawater helps. Dunno how or why but it does. May as well give it a shot if you don’t live too far away from a beach because it is free.

Answer #4

I had that feeling too. Like that I didnt want to be an adult but a little kid were you be weird and play princess without bieng looked at weird. Were you can be yourself. I found to mixmy style with my little kid personality and for the pimple thing dont use proactive because for people that are like thirteen it usually burns your skin. Just wash your face every night and use powder or something. I really hope this helps some what

by the way im 13 too.:)

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