How do I ask this girl out...

I didn’t say AS A JOKE.. I said in a joke.. Like… “If I wanted to ask you out what would you say, jkjk! But seriously?” I did that to my girlfriend… but then again I’ve known her for 11 years..

do not ask her as a joke! if you do that she wont even take you seriously!

if you want her to take you seriously then you need to ask her seriously. talk to her! and then ask her.

your just going to have to get up the courage to do this. if you dont get the courage now…then later on there will be some new girl that you are scared to talk to and the problem wont go away. just work on getting over your fear, so it is no longer a problem for you.

Try to just talk to her. I love watching the show on Vh1 called Mystery, I think it really teaches men how to approach a women, I know it works for me.(as the women) I find all those hints very helpful to men, Women just want to be respected and have fun, Confidence is a big turn on. Maybe practice with a friend and role play until you work up enough confidence, Good Luck

im like you reallly shy but try bein romantic???

dude… ask her in a joke… sort of way cause I know you have a sense of humour…