How do get a boy to go out with me?

There’s this boy in my class that I really like, and I want him to ask me out, but he hasn’t yet. I dont want to ask him myself because he might say no because im not “popular” enough. I catch him staring at me sometimes, and I think he might like me, but is to afraid to ask me out because, like I said, im not “popular enough”. Help!!!

Answer #1

be yourself. try talking to him and becoming better friends with him.

Answer #2

thanx lan. he’s afraid mostly, I think :)

Answer #3

I have no idea.. I’m still trying to figure it out.. But, if he is “ the one” then make sure you be yourself and never change kuz he should love you for who you already are ! :)

Answer #4

I find this quite amusing.

You are scared to ask him out, because he might say no, but he is probably also scared to ask you out, because he thinks that you might say no.

How about, next time you go out with your friends to a movie (make sure that there are guy friends as well) ask him with and get to know him and see if

  1. you really are interested and
  2. he really is interested

and then you can ask him out knowing more about whether he likes you.

Answer #5

If he really likes you,it doesn’t matter if you are popular or not.Try being friends first.Say simple nice things like I like your shirt,shoes or whatever.

Answer #6

Ask your friends to ask him me and my friends are not the most popular girl either but We”ll still go up to guys and ask if they like any of Us

Answer #7

why would you want to go out with a boy who is embarrassed of you bkuz you’re not popular enough?? anyways…you should at least try and talk to him… like saying hi or some type of simple conversation… or even give a friendly smile to let him know you are approachable. then if you know for sure he likes you..just ask him out on your own… if the answer is no, then just move on to the next… =)

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