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Hi, I hate this girl in school and she was horrible about my family and told lies she went around my year group telling everyone that my dad Threatened her and last week on wenesday which was parents evening my mum had a right go at her and she is claiming that my mum graped her when she did not and she on thursday that my mum graped me and her head to head and my mum would not do that the school knows about it and she has told everyone lies what should I do? My was going to take it to the papers and everything but we are not anymore I hate liers?!
I know how you feel.. when I was in the 7th grade my friend was angry at me and some of my other friends and so she spread a whole bunch of rumors only about me and my family. I didn't make a big deal about it, and besides, no one believed them anyways, because everyone she told them to were MY friends too, and they knew me. So after she did it she felt really bad and also she had lost me and all her other friends as friends. About a year later, I forgave her, and now we are good friends and hang out all the time. In a way it made it easier on our friendship, because now I'm pretty sure she will never do anything to hurt me again because she knows from that year she had lost me as a friend that she doesn't want that to happen again. It just takes time to get over it, and trust me, I'm not the most forgiving person... I tend to hold grudges and I forgave her... not fully, but we're good now. But if it gets worse, try talking to your school counsellor, they can really help with problems..
Good luck! I hope everything works out for you :)
I hate them too...
I mean seriously have they nothing better to do than ruin other peoples lifes? sad, sad, sad, disgraceful human beings...
I will not mention what id do... but you might wanna look up the local law on slander. incase you dont know what slander is: in short its a form of speech made up of lies that are malicious and/or harmful.. some other people might want to add more to what it actually is.. but in short thats it.
you'd need to go to the police and ask them about this (slander) and if you take a witness, someone thats herd what she said and knows it to be untrue, then youll get to where you need to a lot quicker. :)
good luck and let us know the out come cus I myself would love to read in my funmail that she got her comeuppance!
You need to turn the other cheek.The best revenge is to not care at all about what someone else does.If you quit letting her know she's pushing your buttons then she'll probably lose intrest and stop.That or she wants to do you,lol.I'm just kidding,na really; just ignore her.
I agree with both of the above comments -- I am guessing you are young --- let the parents handle it. You just try to keep plugging along. Maybe tell your school counselor about the problem.
