How could I stop being overly nice? is it a turnofff?

Is being overly nice a turn off? I just cant see, or ever be mean too anyone. My friends say its annoying, and my guy friends say I need to stick up for myself and its okay to be bitchy at times. but I just cant be bitchy.. ever. lollol, is this a turn off too you guys?

Answer #1

No it’s not a turn off for me..I’m kind of the same way. I really dont care sometimes about stuff..like where to eat, what movie to watch..I’m just like whatever. Sometimes I’ll have something in mind that I really want to do and do it but 9 times out of 10 I could careless.

Answer #2

Thanks too both of ya’ll :) I do have my own opinions, I just tell them nicely, lollol, but im going to try to be alittle bit more honest and if something bothers me ill stick up for what I believe in! thanks!

Answer #3

You dont have to be b*tchy. But yes, being overly nice can be a turn off. Who wants to be with someone who has no thoughts or opinions of their own and agrees with everything you say? Not to mention, an unequal relationship (I.e. one where one person acquiesces to another) is not healthy and unlikely to last. You dont have to stop being who you are. A kind, warm hearted person is loved by all. But you also need to learn to stand up for yourself and your wants and needs.

Answer #4

I personally like a girl that is nice way better than someone with an attitude and it’s really hard to find someone like you in my opinion don’t change and it’s not a turn off I’m sure some people will think that but like me I think that you are one of kind not many like you out there. I do think that you shouldn’t let anyone push you around but that doesn’t mean that you need to me btchy jut stay away from does people.

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