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How could I do this?! (cheated)!?

Me and my boyfriend are competely in love, hes my everything…but…I just was on a videochat with a girl I know, and she got naked, and I watched her, and I showed her my boobs, and I feel terrible. And she told me she loves me?! How can I make her see I dont love her? And I feel so bad…my boyfriend is going to hate me…please, what should I do?

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Answer #1

Well, I can tell you what you should do, and what you can do.

What you SHOULD do is tell him. The first and most critical part of any monogamous, long-term relationship is communication, and honest communication at that. This being said, the longer you wait to tell him, the worse the outcome will be. So come up with a speech, be humble, pray(if you’re into that kind of thing), and tell him. If you actually feel sorry, you’ll most likely shed a couple tears, BUT DON’T FORCE THEM.

Or, you can not tell him. With this there is the potential he’ll somehow find out on his own, or the event will nag at you for the rest of the relationship, which can and most likely will ruin it. Guilt makes people moody.

But if you aren’t truly sorry, you probably should give him the courtesy of a break-up, at least till you know what to do about yourself. And tell him why, don’t just say we’re breaking up.

Answer #2

Lol I agree w/ tay, If I figured out my g/f ha done that it would open ip a lot of doors lol Its not really cheating I mean c’mon its another girl THATS HOT lol

Answer #3

really?! ii would probably tell him… and he might even think something like that is sexyy… telling him that might open up a lot of doors in your relationship..

Answer #4

Be honest and tell him you love him and your truely sorry… Hopefully he’ll understand..

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