How do I tell my best friend I like him?

I have a problem… again…

Well, I hate having this feeling inside… I like my best friend… The problem is, is that he likes his x who is moving and she likes someone else who is also moving… My best friend whom I like, Always talks to me, I tell him everything. If I lie to him I have to tell him the truth, He always helps me with everything and when I have a problem (crying) he always cheers me up. If I have to talk to him hes always there. I liked him about two years ago but never really looked into it because he had a girlfriend, I didnt like the girl but if he was happy that was cool. I grew out of it (I thought I was) and found new guys, but none of them ever gave me this feeling, of being wanted and actually cared for. My friend and I have been on the phone everyday for about three or four months and we talk over 6 hours a day (I looked at the times on my phone) haha Hes an awesome guy, Hes very talented with guitar and hes in a local band that I take pics for at shows and there practice. I love all of those guys in there.

I want to tell him how I feel about him, but im scared if I do that he will neer talk to me again. I dont know what to do about all of this. My feelings for him wont go away. and I wish they would. But I have this weird feeling that if I stop talking to him he wont have anyone to talk to. He friend who is also in the band is really weird about stuff like this.

I dont know what to do. Help?

Answer #1

I think u sould tell him, cuz what if he feels the same way 2 i have the same problem i think you should tell him.. then thing well jusst fallin in to place ull never no unless u try u have to tell im sooner or later well.. thtz all u have to say gud luck w/ him <3 K3lly

Answer #2

17 and 20 is not an age difference that’s a problem. I don’t know why anyone would give you a hard time about that. If you like someone and want to date them, you’ll only ever get anywhere if you make your feelings known.

I’ve said it once, I’ll say it 1,000 more times. Rejection is not the end of the world. Take a risk, people!

Answer #3

i no this lad n he has been 1 ov ma bezzies 4 about 8 years and last year he asked me out and i sed yes we dated 4 about 4 months and he finished me but he is still 1 of ma bezzies he is no different and doesnt pretend it neva happened but doesnt mention we just act normally round eachother so if u tell him how u feel n ask him out and it doesnt work out ud beta hope hes lyk carl n stays best m8s wiv u lol hope i cud help sowwii im crap at this :(

Answer #4

Whyy would he never talk to you agian if you told him you had feelings for him? What is this, kindergarten?

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