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I'm in college and lately I've been around girls' and completely avoided boys around me. The school I go to has the majority of Caucasian people, which I'm totally ok with. I'm VERY shy talking with a guy, scratch that a cute guy. I like white guys and Asians but I don't think that they are interested. I'm not the typical balck girl, I stick to my own style and music and I break stereotypes. But I feel that it's going to take more than that to talk to a guy. I'm really NERVOUS around boys'. The only boy that I talk to is a friend from home and all we talk about is boy stuff, but I want to keep it that way. One reason why I'm nervous around guys is because I can't handle the fact that they look at me in the eye, and I'm very self-consious with my forehead because it's big and I hardly smile because there isn't really nothing to smile about. I feel that a giy won't be interested in me because of my looks. And on this campus there aren't any interracial dating here and I really don't know why??? I go to a Christian college but I have a feeling that the boys' around here aren't that nice. Please help ^^
All you can do is just put yourself out there and talk to them, the worst thing they could say is no, and then go on about your business. My girlfriend didnt want anything to do with me at first bc of her past, but I just kept talking to her and letting her see who I really was and now we have been together for 11 months. So like I said the worst thing they could say is no, then you go on about your business and try someone else. Trust me its worth all the no's to get that one yes. :)
Heyy, I would first off join some clubs on campus with a friend or two and start talkn to the guys, small talk even, just the hey whats up? that type of stuff then interduce urself. I was really nervous talking to girls for YEARSSS, my god haha then finally I said I just need to start talkn to em. Thats the best way to get comfortable and confident. I can guarentee they wont be nasty back to you! Just find that guy sitting on a bench and say hello! it doesnt hurt right?? =D
