How can I stop him from doing weed?

I’ve started seeing this boy called nathan. His been really sweet and im getting to know him. I wont get with him thou cause I dont want to be with someone who does weed because I truely hate it with a passion. I dont want to be really horrible and say me or the weed but I want him to know I want him to stop it. Please help I dno how to say it to him ? xxx

Answer #1

guys hate when you try to change them, absolutely hate it. so stick with him and maybe he’ll stop on his own. or you can tell him straight out an see what he says. and ya there is always just ending the relationship

Answer #2

Thank youu :), I dont want to change him, but I dont want him to harm his body and be stupid enough to actually do it in the first place. I am thinking about ending the relationship because I dont want to get involved with all that stuff and I dont want a boyfriend who is involved with all of that too. thank youu for the advice:))) xxx

Answer #3

just tell him you dont want him 2 get hurt, and if he wants 2 calm down just 2 call u. thats what I tell my boyfriend. he likes 2 do week, pot and all that crap, but just tell him if he really loves you he will stop and stop 4 good, because everytime you c him do it you cry and cry because you dont want anythin bad happenin 2 him. and remond him if he does it then he can die from cancer, remind him you love him and that you would love him even more if he stopped. I did that and my boyfriend hasnt done weed or pot in at least 2 years now. good luck!!<3

Answer #4

it’s hard to do that, just leave him it’ll be way eassyer for the both of you.

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