How can I stop flirting?

I’ve been talking to my ex, and what I thought was just talking turned out to be flirting-hardcore. He likes me now but I have a boyfriend of over a year. I’ve gotten into trouble with not being able to control me flirting. What to do??

Answer #1

I dont mean to flirt! I realized I was flirting when the guy told me he liked me! I told him off and am not texting, emailing or talking to him! he is outta my life!

Answer #2

I think he does it to make me jealous.

And why are YOU doing it? It sounds like there’s just a lot of insecurity in your relationship… on both sides…

Answer #3

im in the EXACT same position right now… it is one of the hardest feelings in the world… but I went a step too far and got back with my ex because my boyfriend left me then got back with boyfriend and have not seen him for a month now… so it HAS to stop somehow.. because this I the worst mess you could get yourself into… its like a thing when you dont realise until its too late.. you have to tell him to remind you that you cant do this or if he wont… tell him that you can no longer talk to him if the flirting continues. I think something like if it was your boyfriend doing it how would you feel? have something on your hand or wrist to remind yourself that.. or a sticky note on your wall =) x

Answer #4

I think he does it to make me jealous. and when I go to the bar with him I get hit on by drunk guys ans sh!t and tell them off. and he comes over and gets all pouty because he thinks I was flirting with them. if I was gonna flirt with guys they wud be good looking sober guys. I have never gottten in trouble while drunk tho. weird

Answer #5

oh well.. then technically youre not the one in the wrong… in the first place.. he shouldnt be doing that.. and after 1 year =o… thats wrong… why does he do it? to make sure you still like him and make you jealous? or what? =s x

Answer #6

I have a promise ring that I remind myself. I though I was just talking to him, like I don’t know what even went wrong between me and that guy, but ya I wud be super jealous if my boyfriend did that. oh wait he already does, with my 2 best girl friends. and he knows its true. I dont flirt with guys in person, but he flirts with my girlfriends

Answer #7

wow that sucks lol umm you should try to avoid him as much as possible untill you can handle you flirting or just talk to him while your with your with your boyfriend so you wont flirt :) thats hard though

Answer #8

…STOP…TALKING…TO…HIM…

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