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How can I make things better between us?

Okay, so I went out with this guy, Tom, for a year and I was getting really tired of the repetitive hanging out and all, we started to drift. I started to like our other friend, Gar, so I foolishly acted on a whim and broke up with him and went out with Gar. It’s been six months since then and I can barely get Tom to talk to me, and I’ve broken up with Gar, but thank god he hasn’t stopped talking to me like Tom did.

For the past four months I’ve had dreams of being with Tom like nothing happened and every time I think or see him I get really upset cause I know I made a big mistake and I want to be with him again. I also have minor depression because of this [yayz!] my friends keep me sain. :)

He says he’s over it and doesn’t care if we’re friends again yet he barely looks at me when we do get to hang out, which is usually because my other friend invites us both.

So yeah, has anyone ever had something like this happen to them [I’m sure someone has] and how did it turn out for you.

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Answer #1

I had something like this happen…not in same way. The guy did it to me. If you really like him then just kinda give him space and time. Let him know that you want hate him if he cant face you for what was done to him. He will then realize how much you care about him.

It didnt turn out too good for me with the guy who did it to me. I told him I didnt want him back. I was scared he would possibly do it again. But things between us felt completely different after he did that.

If its meant to be…time will heal this between the two of you. Give it time and all will reveal to you and him.

Keep your head up high and keep a smile on your face at all times. Try to be as confident as possible, otherwise things could go wrong. ^-^ Be happy no matter the situation ^-^

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