How can I make sex less painfull???

well pretty much everything you do will be painful until your hymen is broken it hurts like hell until this thin piece of skin called your hymen is broken,I had the same problem trust me I had my hymen broken by my boyfriend fingering me you can do it yourself tho by fingering yourself,putting something in you, trying to strech it, it will bleed tho when you tear but dont worry its temporairly. hopee it helpppss=)

actually my hymen did break even tho it was only in ounce but we didn’t try again. Now that it’s broken will it stop hurting?

Even with no hymen in the way, when you are young your body tends to tighten up in a spasm called vaginismus. You do not have conscious control of it. If you want, you can think of it as your body telling you that it is not ready for sex. Trying to force past this will only increase the spasm. It usually takes being relaxed and trusting in your partner to overcome this. ‘The vaginismic reflex can be compared to the response of the eye shutting when an object comes towards it.’ It can be overcome, but it takes patience and trust. Good Luck!!

ok… my suggestion would be use sum lubricant…I been wit my Bhoo going on 3yrs. It still hurts meh.. But he take his time and go in very slow…once IN …OMG… feels great. just don’t tense up and relax… trust him… let em guide the way with his penis… he’s not going to let anything happen to you..

lata… hope helped