How can I make my girlfriend want me? what turns her on? how can I make her want me to do things to her?
Actually, it takes a little attention and knowledge of female psychology to do this. First of all, you have to learn to become a little more 'manly'. Don't just suck up to her and do whatever she tells you to( I aint telling you to act mean), have a sense of your own identity. Learn to tease her about things because teasing is a very potent way of getting her very much attracted to you. Learn to have a sense of humour and make her every moment with you a moment of fun and excitement. Don't wait for her to make decisions for you.I assure u, girls really hate a spineless guy who can't make up his mind fast about something. Once you sense that she's expecting a kiss or whatever, don't hesitate.Just do it(thanks to Nike). But when you see that it's getting quite enjoyable for her, stop and lean back and just continue your conversation; then when she is not really expecting it, kiss her again. Now you are being difficult to figure out. Pull back after some time and occassionally touch her hair or whisper into her ear or whatever. Now you are building what is called anticipation- which is when you keep her wanting you to make a move but she's never knowing when you'll do it.This is immensely seductive. This is not a text book guidance on what to do when you're around her- it's just advice. Make it fun.Be creative and think of her. Which means, you pay attention to her and learn to read the signs.
you cant force her to get turned on ar all of a sudden want you just talk to her about how she feels like about sex and for the most part kissing a girls neck its a mayor turn on