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How can I make my ex-friend with benefits as my boyfriend?

I’m totally inlove with my friend, he knows/knew as we’ve gotten off at parties, we talk all the time, we hang out quite a bit and we were friends with benefits.. then he broke it off so he could go after another girl he really likes but its not awkward at all between us : ) (score). However I want him back, and I want him for real! What can I do???

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Answer #1

tell him but accept that he has a girlfreind right now dont do anything sexual with him while he has a girlfreind and remember that as a friend with benifits he probably doesnt love you and/or wanta committed relationship with you and is probably only using you for sex while when hes not in a relationship becayse thats what a friend with benifits is, no strings attatched sex but you can always ask

Answer #2

arghh dammit. so right. I knew that.. I’m basically the booty call (Y) not good enough.. its just so hard stepping off and being hard to get while still trying to be friends with him hehe. so people, advice on making him mine???

Answer #3

well darl thats were you went wrong. you gave him what he wanted with out being in a relationship and he probally thinks “why go out with her when I can get what I want any way” so maybe just stay away from him and act hard to get, dont be easy :)

Answer #4

he knows! he still knows! I give him space all the time.. the annoying thing of being friends is that I set myself goals to get over him etc by not talking to him and then he texts me and we end up on the phone all night etc. so I end up back at square one!

Answer #5
  1. don’t be annoying, give him his space
  2. don’t force you guys together, if you love him and he pulls away you should respect him enough for him to be happy
  3. give him signs that you like him
  4. if he still don’t get it, you gotta tell him face to face
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