how can I make him intrested in me agian?

okay…so I dated this guy for about a year…hes amazing and he dumped me like 4 days before the first day of school started…I see him all the time and I really still love him…I just want him to notice that I’ve changed and its for the better. I’ve become more outgoing and I can share my feelings with him…I’ve also mature in the way my body looks ;) hehe (his friends think he is crazy to have dumped me) and everyone keeps say…”you deserve better than him” but I dont want “better” I want him! and I know that if he could see how I’ve changed he will want me back too. I don’t know what to do…do I txt him and ask him to hang out..? or like will that be too akward and will he not want to? (btw he broke up with me like 3 months ago) and im still deeply hurt and cry when I think about him…im not “infatuated” with him…(we learned the difference between love and infatuation at school already) and I know I have more of the “mature love” feelings for him than the “infatuation” feelings for him…I just need him…I feel generally happy when im around him…and I get butterflies when I hear his voice…to me he is just all around perfection XD please help me… thank you!! <3333

Answer #1

see the thing is that he has been flirting with me a lot lately and talking to me like guy flirting type stuff…I can accept that he wont wanna date me agian…I just would like it better if I could have one last chance to show him how I really am. I know him so well that I am more than 100% possitive that if I could show him and he could see how my personality and every thing has improved then he would want me back.

Answer #2

Hunny, if he broke up with you, he obviously isnt intrested in you anymore. Not being mean, but if he gave you so many years of his life and he breaks up with you, then he’s tired, and he doesn’t want it anymore. Just be friends with him and see where that goes. If nothing comes of that, then just leave it alone and move on.

Don’t try so hard. believe me, if you love him, its better to just let him go; then to make him feel trapped.

Answer #3

If people want to go, you’ve got to let them go. If its truly meant to be it will, but if not you’ve got to accept who they were to you and what they brought into your life but also accept that some things happen only for a season. Time will tell, but just enjoy your family and friends and know that you’re your own person.

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