How to help my pregnant friend?

my friend is pregnet and her boyfriend is telling her to have an abortion and that if she gose throught with it he wont take care of it and yesterday she descided shes going to go throught wiht it and I know that she will regret it cuse they already has one kid shes almost and she loves her to death but I just dont want he to look back and regret this abortion what should I say to help her relize this isnt what she wats to do.

Answer #1

she can get an abortion if both parents want to. it’s her egg, and his sperm. you can’t help her realize that it isn’t something she wants to do, because if she is going through with it, it IS something she wants.

Answer #2

tell her that she should be ready with the consequnces of her actions. remind her that everything happens for a reason…good or bad. there is welfare that can help her take care of the baby…oh yea and there is something called CHILD SUPPORT. if he doesn’t pay…he goes to jail && I don’t think that he wants that so he has to support her and the baby.

Answer #3

yea she saw the baby on the sonigram and relized she cant do it so shes going to go throught with it

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