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Allright I’ll try to keep it short. My and this girl really care about each other and we both want to take it to the next level sex. She will do things to me and she says she’s ready to have sex. But the problme is she was mulested by her father when she was a kid. She dose things for me but if I try to do stuff to her she likes it but she will all of a sudden just freak out and push me away. She then cries for a few hours and thinks that it’s her fault. We live togther we even sleep in the same bed but she freaks out if I touch her when we are making out. I can live with out sex I don’t need to do it but I can’t stand seeing her cry. All I want is a way to help her. If I didnt clearify everthing or you got a Q about something I left out or If you have any ideal please ether leave it here,commet on my page, or funmail me. I just want to see her happy again.

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What you need to do is reasure her that youre not her father and you’re not molesting her. But if she feels uncomfortable with you tiuchng her, you have to do it slowly and keep talking to her while you move in. Just keep movng scloser to her but very slow, while telling her you love her and that you’re not trying to take advantage of her or molest her. Show her you care and that you’re not just using her. If she does start crying just hug her and kiss her on her forehead and keep telling her that you’re not trying to hurt her. If you need more advice fun mail me.

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