How can I help her?

he took 30 paracetamol? are you sure? did she actually see him do that, because no matter what, he should be in hospital with failing kidneys by now…it only takes 6 paracetamol in one go to overdose.

I think you should get hold of her now, and, personally, I would take matters into my own hands. she is repeating her mothers cycle of abusive relationships and excusing them. if he kills himself, it IS NOT her repsonsibility…make that very very clear to her.

it will be his actions that cause them to spilt, if he does something stupid, thats his choice - he doesn’t have to, but that is how he’s choosing to deal or cope with it.

I would get hold of her, and tell her to go. if she doesn’t, this is not your responsibility either. he sounds dangerous, and do you really want someone like him out for your blood because of a choice a friend made?

I know it’s hard to know someone who is being abused, but you can do only so much, and so can they. the buck stops with him I’m afraid…offer your support for when she leaves him, but don’t emotionally support her being with him…

and I would (not saying you should) but tell her mum, if anything happends to her and you were aware but didn’t tell anyone, that will be the biggest regret of your life…what the mum chooses to do from there is her responsibility…she is the mum after all.

I would just like to say, my because had enough when he grabed her by the throat, she rang me crying so I told her I wil tell her mum if she doesnt, I ended up telling her mum and shes now left him.

Call the police? get this mental mofo sent to rehab, then take your cousin clubbing and get her laid, no hard feelings :P

hi, ermm. this is hard to answer, do you no were she is? tel her mum! or tell someone else your close to, maybe they can help.