How can I get them to stop calling me these things?

So at school I’ve been being called a whore slut and bitch. All because I went over to a guys house and he wouldnt tell his girlfriend. We didnt do anything and she thinks I’m out to take him away. He wont talk to me and I keep on trying to tell him sorry since it was partly my fault. How can I get him to talk or listen to me at least???

Answer #1

Oh this is cute…

I’m sure as hell that the the guys girlfriend probably told people really disgusting stuff about you which probably isn’t true. Now as for the boyfriend, he seems to be siding with his girlfriend all because its for his own convenience. As for stopping people from calling you this, thats not going to be easy to do. People just hook onto made up stories and hold them as fact. All you really do have is people that do believe you and from what it looks like, there aren’t many.

It helps to realize that you know that you did nothing wrong and you don’t need other people to tell you otherwise. If people want to believe what she is saying then they can go right ahead, its not going to benefit them in any shape or form whatsoever. If you really insist on talking to the guy then you need him to cooperate with you. Oh and just to point out, its not your fault! It was a misunderstanding that apparently struck as a good excuse to pick on you. I’m not sure why the guy won’t talk to you because even he knows that you did nothing wrong so…?

Hope this helps.

Answer #2

I myself have delt 2ith this problem but in other name calling names 2hat I can tell you 2ho cares 2what other people think people are always gonna talk its a 2ay of life especially with young people hunny you know your better than that and you know the truth and anyone who is taking part of this aint worth your time like I tell my friends if it aint true why does it have to bother you just brush it off and as for that guy he aint worth your time hope this helped.

Answer #3

‘All because I went over to a guys house and he wouldnt tell his girlfriend’

Ok, I’m sorry, why would you go over to this guys house?

You’re going to have to let this go. Stop apologizing, it makes you look guilty. You didnt do anything. If the girlfriend wants to be a b*tch about it, that’s her problem. Ignore her, definitely ignore him (you so dont need a guy like this in your life), and just ignore the drama that she is causing with her friends. Why are you so interested in having this guy listen to you? He messed up, first of all, he shouldnt have taken you to his house. Secondly, he should have told his girlfriend first. The guy’s really not very nice, and you just need to leave him alone. As for the names, I understand it is very hurtful to hear it, but you know its not true. You’ve learned your lesson about hanging out with sleazebags, and you’ll move on. I swear this will seem ridiculous in a few years.

Answer #4

You know your not those names. There just haters cause you where hanging out with a a guy. Your better off hanging out with guys who cares what they think. Females are snakes and will turn on you in your face. Sounds like there just jealous of you. Just ignore them and forget the guy cause obviously hes no friend. Move on just be you who cares what they think.

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