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How can I get my boyfriend back?

A couple of months I was raped while I was one month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, he didn’t know I was pregnant and I was planning to tell him the next day. After the guy raped me I had a miscarriage. I phoned my boyfriend right after it happened but I didn’t tell him I was raped I gave the impression I cheated. I felt so guilty I lost the baby when I should have been protecting it I didn’t want him to feel sorry for me I wanted to be punished. I have since told him the truth about the rape but he was convinced I was lying for a while and said that after our time apart he doesn’t want to get back together. I have now also told him about the miscarriage but now he won’t even speak to me, I really love him and I need someone to support me right now, I know it was terrible not to tell the truth from the start but I just didn’t know how. Do you think too much has happened for us to ever get back together?

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Well, what happened isn’t, but how you handled it is. The fact that you lied to him in his mind tells him that you don’t trust him, and as a result, his trust in you has probably been shattered considering all that happened. If you want ANY relationship to work, you must be 100% honest all the time, contrary to what a lot of kids will tell you these days(see where they are in 10 years).

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