How can I get to next base smoothly when we're kissing?

So I’ll be making out with him, just kissing and stuff and I’l want to go further but I don’t know how to make a move without surprising him and crossing a line. I can’t just stick my hands down his pants… can I? What should I do?

Answer #1

Put his hand on your boob or something, and then secretly feel if he’s getting harder. Then just casually whisper in between the kiss “You want to?” And see what he says after that!!

Love and Rockets, Sierra

Answer #2

as far as these lines you speak of they do not exist and guys love those type of surprises

Answer #3

well what kinda guy is he?

have you tried just fiddling with his belt buckle, that should let him know whats coming?

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