how can I get her back?

yea but thats just it, we never hang out much anyway because we both have our other m8s to see, and I always wait for her to get in contact about hangin out because she’s the one thats more busy than I am. but when we do agree arrangments she cancels out or changes them at last minute. lol thanks for all your advice =] its appreciated a lot.

ok, my advice to you is to stop trying to hang out with her. You can still be her friend, you guys can just talk and see each other whenever. Don’t make a big deal out of her because it’s obvious that she isn’t making a big deal out of you. She might feel pressured to hang out with because you complained about it to her … you should find another friend who wants to hang out with you as much as you’d like… If you see her then great, if not then don’t worry about it…you seriously dont want to keep pressuring this girl, besides she told you to f**k off and that’s not how you talk to or treat a friend!

sounds like she needs space. I would give it a couple weeks and then maybe make a small friendly gesture, just to sort of test the waters. if she is a good friend, she should offer her apologies as well because it sounds like you have a justifed reason for being upset with her. if she has still not realized that she was in the wrong, maybe you are better off to make a new friend who will enjoy your company! good luck

also, apologize to her about bringing the issue up and simply move on after that… hopefully when you apologize it will get the friendship back, but don’t ask her to hang out with you again, let her come to you