Ok, so my dad and I are pretty close.. But he has EXTREMELY high blood pressure.. It is like 195 over 150 or something.. He says the side of his body goes numb sometimes.. And I have no idea what to do!!! I love him soo much, and I always prey for him.. But I'm sooo worried.. He won't go to the hospital.. I need a way to convince him ASAP.. I want to write him a letter or something.. Can someone please give me something to write? I'm not too good with letters.. Please help me.. This is really important to me. Please.. Thank you.
First...let me tell you that the only thing holding him back is fear...he's SCARED to go.
Say exactly what you've said here...guilt him into quit being so selfish...so fearful, that he'd leave you alone in this world. You can remind him that medically...anything to do with the heart, or circulatory system advances by leaps and bounds every year.
It'd be a damn shame if all he needed was a stent in his heart (not that big of a procedure)...to make him feel better.
Yeah my mom can be that way too... And I know that my mom is teraffied when I tell her that its a good idea to go to the hospital so I think that if his bllod pressure is too high or too low you need to call the ambulance. I know it seems like he might get mad or something but the truth is that he will tank you because you don't want to loose him. And also tell him that, let him know what he means to you. meaby then he will think what really is worth.
tell him how much you care about him and it would kill you to see him get sick. say it where you are almost to cry too