How can I change my attitude with my Mom?

I cnstantly make mistakes with my mom.I’ve been trying 2 change my attitude with her but it never works. She finally said she’ll forgive me if I change but I always fail when I try o how can I change.

Answer #1

yeah I have the same problem, but for me its way different, im the middle kid, and my mom makes me feel like im not good enough or anything, my sister and brother dont do anything, she makes me clean, and everything you can think of, she treats and talks to me like im a step-child that dont really belong in this family, and the worst part of all this is, I think I could be pregnant, and im already scared of my mom even tho im almost 17, but she gets very very very angry and can make you feel like shit, and I hate that, im starting to have suicide thoughts and I dont like it, I feel sometimes why should I be alive if all I get is bull shit from her every second of my life, or im really thinking of moving out when im 18 or even 19, because I cant stand her anymore! I serisouly cant, I cant to be out and on my own, I know its going to be hard because of course buying and paying for everything my-self, but I dont know what to think or do, I cant even talk to her, we dont have a mother-daughter relation-ship at all! I mean sometimes we talk but about random shit, and if I try to tell her anything she shuts me out, I cannot stand it! but I hope things are kinda going good 4 u, im trying to change but it never seems to work either..but all we can do is try, there aint nothing else we can do.

Answer #2

You have to think before you talk. I know manny times when we are mad we complitly just say things whit out meaning it and specially when we are yung! I know I do it manny times. But think before you are going to say something and then think to yourself how that is going to sound take a deep breath and try to refraise that in better words.

Also why do you get attitudes whit your mom? Soetimes mom can be wrong and sometimes they do accept it but there is times where things can be different. But if this is not the case then you can really sit down and talk to her and say to her why you get those attitudes sometimes we have feelings inside that we don’t want to show and we take them out trough anger. Just tell her how you are feeling and that you are sorry and also let her share things whit you. Comunication is really helpful between two people!

Good luck :)

Answer #3

Well, it depends on how she wants you to change, like if you need to pick up after urself or take more initiative, or do chores without being asked… that kinda stuff. Help her out with stuff or whenever it looks like she needs help.

hope I helped girl… :)

Answer #4

well it depends how she wants you to change, if its to do with doing more chores or if its about the attitude.. I had a problem with attitude but I kinda sorted myself out over time even if I kept messing up and in the end I realised that me and my mum were just too different to understand each other, so I got my own flat. I still talk to her but at least I know that she doesnt needtoworry about me causing problems.

Answer #5

I have issues with my girls being mean a lot towards me, I think its a normal thing to go through. I went through it also as a younger girl. You fight to get older and she fights to keep you young. We truly only want whats best for you even though at the time it doesnt feel that way. Just make sure you watch the things you say words cant be taken back just appolijized for but never gone. at almost 40 I can remember things my parents said to me. But she also has to remember the same thing. It will be ok when you are older you will see why she fights with you. Its all apart of growing up so dont feel bad about yourself just try and understand her more. We all make mistakes and we can only learn and do it differently. I hope it get better soon.

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