How can I be sexy and confident around my boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend just started dating but we’ve liked each other for a while and had already made it to second base before we started dating. Now that we’re dating he wants to go a little farther. It sounds ok to me, but I don’t know how to be sexy and confident when he’s doing things to me. I’m afraid he won’t like the way I feel or the way I do something and dump me. I also don’t feel sexy. How can I feel sexy around my boyfriend?! Help!

Answer #1

Just be yourself! Why don’t you feel confident? Because that is the way to look and feel sexiest, is to just be yourself and confidence is the best key. If you don’t feel like you can be yourself and confident around your boyfriend, he’s maybe not the one. And if he wants to go further and you don’t want to, well then he shouldn’t bring it up again. He should respect your choice! If he doesn’t then get rid of him, he’s not worth your time. If he can’t wait then that’s all he’s wanting. If he dumps you over stuff like that, you’re better off without him! ok. I’m serious. Anything else, just ask. Yes, I’m married and have been with my husband for 14 years, so I do know a little bit of what I’m talking about. ;-)

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