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How can I be a better?

Ok.

So, I moved to spain 3 years ago leaving all my family and friends behind for my boyfriend.

Also (bit embarrassing) my boyfriend has a normal sx drive, I dont like sxual things, I dont know why, I just dont. And so when it comes to doing stuff im really reluctant and bless him has been really good about it, I mean we have been together nearly four years.

But no he is starting to get pssed about it, I apparently ruin everything. Sayying I can be really nice one moment and a btch the next.

I dont know what to do because im out here all on my own, no family not many friends. I have tried talking to him but its no good, he doesnt want to listen.

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Answer #1

This is why you should never, ever leave your family for a guy no-matter-what. Why didn’t you think of that before you left? You should really contact your family or something so you can get out of this.

Answer #2

I don’t like how your title question was worded,

“How can I be a better”

which I’m assuming means girlfriend.

I don’t know you - I know absolutely nothing about you except that you moved away from so many things to be with one guy. To me, that makes you a pretty nice person, and an extremely good girlfriend. You don’t need to be “better” for anyone.

I would suggest what the person above me suggested - talking to family and moving back home.

Some people have high sex drives, some have low. If it’s really a big deal in the relationship, and you two have different ‘drives’, then maybe you just aren’t meant for each other. Maybe find someone with a low sex drive to make it less complicated, OR someone who wouldn’t mind not being so sexual.

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