How and should I trust her?

Well this girl keeps talking behind my back and she sits at my lunch table and everyone is tired of her spilling our secrets. She begs us to trust her. I’m a forgiving person, but I can’t seem to find it in my heart to trust her. Am I wrong for that?

Answer #1

I don’t think your wrong for that. I mean shes been spilling out all your secrets, why should you trust her?

Funny thing is, she begs you to trust her but yet she doesn’t change herself first (which is what I’m getting from the question). If she really wanted your trust she would do something about her personality. It would be nice if you guys helped her out (uncalled for but she might need it) but she has to do the changing herself. I personally feel that she should re-earn the trust that she lost. That way you know for sure that you can trust her.

If she doesn’t want to cooperate then its not worth it really. Shes just going to keep telling lies and spilling secrets – not cool. For now I suggest you stay away from her, she doesn’t seem to be the best of company.

Hope this helps.

Answer #2

Don’t trust her. -.- I know all about that second chance stuff and all. But if she’s done it multiple times, then she ain’t gonna change. Don’t tell her anything you don’t want others to know. Just talk about generic stuff when she’s around, like, the weather and stuff. Don’t tell her who your crush is, etc. Because, she’ll spill it.

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