highschool boy problem

okay so I’m a sophomore in highschool and in late sept I started to really like this boy, a freshmen, lets say his name is nate. at one point I was told nate liked me, but he never made a move or anything so I tried to get over it. around late december nate’s friend and I hit it off and we had a thing for a little, but never dated. a few months later…I hooked up with a senior who is best friends with nate’s brother (yeah I know I dug myself a hole). I was hoping that through the past months (it’s probably around march now) I would have gotten over nate..but I havent. so he eventually found out that I liked him and he didnt really do much about it. since I didnt want to waste my time, I decided to build up the courage to..atleast text him..and find out if there’s a chance or if I should just try to get over him. turns out he said that it wouldn’t work because I had a thing with his friend and his brothers friend. I was hoping it wouldn’t have come to that, considering in highschool tons of people date within groups and stuff. but since it did I had to try to get over it. we both decided not to make it awkward..even though it absoluetly was. HOWEVER, this weekend we ended up hanging out for the first time since the awkward conversation and I had a lot of fun and we hit it off well. I don’t know what to do…should I go for it again? or..I don’t know move on?

oh also, he was flirting with me and my friend a lot..who was flirting back even though she knows I really like him…

Answer #1

To be totally honest, I don’t think that you should do anything. Nowadays it is the guy who usually asks the girl out or the guy who will make a move, so if he is interested, then odds are he will make a move. Otherwise just get over him. Don’t try to get over him because trying means not doing it. Just get over him. Its a simple mind power matter. You are in charge of the people who you like. Don’t like this guy anymore because it is obvious that this situation has become a little bit out of hand. You don’t have to like him, and I don’t care how many people say otherwise, it is extremely easy to get over someone if they really know how to. It is easy for me. No, I’m not selfish at all. I’m smart. I just don’t like the people who I get hurt being with. I’m an extremely respectful guy and I am not a jerk to girls at all. I’m saying that you are not a jerk by letting of someone so easily because you are getting hurt by this situation; even if you like him and he likes you. You will both learn something from this. Trust me; if you believe that you will be okay, then you will. I promise. So just let him go. As it goes for the flirting with you AND your friend, it probably means that he does not like you. Guys will flirt with any girl they are with just to make them laugh and to give them self esteem. So it probably meant nothing. Best of luck to you!

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Online Love Problem Solution ...

Astrology Services, Relationship Counseling, Online Services

Advisor

Narcissist Problems

Mental Health, Self-Help, Relationships

Advisor

Marriage Problem Solutions

Love Spells, Relationship Advice, Marriage Counseling

Advisor

Online Chat US

Social Networking, Dating, Online Community

Advisor

SilverSingles

Online Dating, Relationships, Matchmaking