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Help!? Should I go back ?!

Okay, so I was friend with benefits with a really close friend/ex. The sex was great. Until he started being very public about our sex life. It was giving me a bad reputation, lots a rumors (some true and some untrue) were going around. So I cut him outta of my life. Countless times he tried to come back to me, for five months he tried to get me back. I kept saying no, but now I do want him back. What should I do ? Should I talk to him (we havent talked in like 2months) and see if he’s up for going back to the way things were. I’m afraid he’s not gonna want it, and I dont wanna make a stupid choice. Help?!

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Answer #1

Why would you. He ONLY wants sex, not a relationship? You would be making a stupid choice by going back to something that only involves sex? I dont know how that can make anyone feel good about themselves knowing your just some object.

Answer #2

Yeah, but things at first were GREAT. all last summer was perfect, but we both started a new school together and things were different, I’m thinking, that MAYBE since school is out and our situations are different, that he might be different, I mean, I’m different.

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