Is it wrong for the girl to ask the guy to marry her?

Is it ok to ask him?? It is fantastic!!! But first, you will need to feel him out a bit on his thoughts on marriage. It is wonderful to know that “he is the one”, and it is ok, if he has not come to the realization that “you are the one”. Maybe he is not thinking that way yet. Like a deer in the headlights, dont make sudden moves or he will run for the hills. heeheheh But seriously, the next quiet moment, make sure it is “before” sex and not after. Just casually mention to him that you have been thinking about marriage a lot. Not sure why, guess it is because oh the deep feeling you have for him. … Now wait. If he is on the same wavelength as you…you are all set. But, if he is not, dont despair yet. There are many reasons men are nervous about marriage. Were his parents divorced? Does he already know that it is now MORE than a 50% your marriage will end up in divorce? Reasure him, of the 49% of marriages that last, MOST of those last a life time. Beautiful thought. At least you have planted the seed. If he is dead-set against it, maybe he is not the man for you. Or maybe he will come around. But not likely. Let him think about it for a while. His friends will tell him he is crazy to get married, but hopefully he will realize that he is crazy not to want to spend the rest of his life with you. What a great couple you two will make growing old together. Or course, denying him sex will work too, but you want him to come to you willingly. Sorry, back to the initial question, should you ask him? Plant the seed, maybe he will ask you. (you make him think it was HIS idea). Or tell him you are ready! Speaking from the heart is always the right thing to do, even if doesnt bring the results you want. BEST OF LUCK