How can I get my wife to love me again?

Hi Jasonmed: Your situation is more common than most would like to admit. After some years of marriage the woman gets bored with the same ol same ol. It will pop up in several ways. One is the bedroom. If you are likely to do the same thing at the same time in the same way she will think that “oh hum here we go again” Another place is in the finances. She may be worn down by paying off the bottomless pit of debt that school loans etc. Third place is family relationships. Remember when you were courting her none of these issues came into much consideration. It was just the two of you against the world. Well somewhere along the way reality has set in. Now all of that is my guess based on years of dealing with couples. My advise to you is the same as I give to them. Romance her all over again. If money is tight then make funny greeting cards from paper bags. Split a big Mac. Two straws in complimentary water. Just find ways to make being together fun again. Take pressure off her in the bedroom for a while. Women make better lovers when they are in love. So job one is to charm and adore her all over again only this time don’t ever stop. Good Luck Gino.