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Help, my boyfriend's dad died!

My boyfriend’s(of 2 years) dad just passed away. He lives at home still and is 26, but we were planning on moving in together in the beginning of June. His mother can not work, but is still able to do everyday things except mowing and things like that. I am not sure whether he will still move in with me or if he’ll stay with his mom. What do I do? If your parent passed away, would you still move out with a boyfriend/girlfriend in a month or two? I want him to be with me because I want to start our lives together, but I don’t want to ask him to do this. I definitely will give him time & be there for him. I was close with his dad as well. I’m just afraid I’ll be stuck dating a guy who lives with his mom for the rest of his life. I can’t do that.

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Answer #1

give him 6 months, then You can stark to talk about it again, but now You realy shouldnt…

Answer #2

Could you two perhaps help out with paying for services that would go to the house and check on his mom so he doesn’t have to live with her? He might be delayed a little moving out because he might not want to make so much change in his mothers life in such a short time. It might be too much stress on her for her son to move out after all those years of him living with her, and her having her son as well as her husband. In June would be too soon, so waiting a little while might be good. I am sorry for the loss.

Answer #3

im sorry about that but whrer do you live?

Answer #4

wait a little bit, he needs time to recooperate and what he really needs you to do is be there for him and be sympathetic!

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