Help me stop thinking about it

My husband and I were together for 3 months the first time that we were together. He broke up with me and we didn’t speak for a whole year. While he was gone I wound up dating a guy that coincidentally ahd hit him with a car 2 months before we got together in the first place. Well we broke up in November and The guy who is now my husband walked back in and we got married. Well I can’t stop thinking about this other guy and if I made a mistake in letting him go. Should I tell him this? But I know that if I do my husbad will find out and be pissed. But I need closure from that to move on with the rest of my life.

Answer #1

I don’t see why you went and got married to him so soon without being sure and 100% committed to being with him forever. Sounds like you need some marriage counseling if you are having problems because he obviously isn’t make you feel complete.

Answer #2

you have to think about who is more important to you … do you feel like you will be missing out on one of the greatest guy ever or are you content with your husband.. if you love this other guy g ofor it you dont want to spend the rest of your life wondering do you

Answer #3

You made a life-long committment to your husband when you married him. Stay with your husband. If you were having doubts you shouldn’t have married, but now you have, stick with your decision and just try forget this other guy.

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