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Will I ever get over this mistaken breakup?

okay…lets see how I can phrase this. I was having some major issues at this certin time in my life-and I was in this chat room and ment this guy-this absolutly amazing guy-and we started dating. we went out for a month and 21 days. a close friend of mine went on my profile and told him that he was a bastard and that it was over(she was just joking around, but he didnt take it that way) and when I came on later that day I startd to message him and hes like y in the fck are you talking to me? he explained all that happened and I tried to tell himi it wasnt me and he just..exploded!!! “ you god dame btch you ruined my likfe how could you do that and lie about it …” well anywayz..here I am almost 9 months later..and I cant stop thinking about him. I dont date..I dont hang out with anyone..I sit alone and listen to music and think. but on the ocassions I do go out..im always craving love..someone to be there for me when I need them. will I ever love agian? at all? is it true you never stop loveing your first true love? ever since him my life is spiralling downward. I cant think about anything..I cut constantly..I have epicked up on all sorts of drugs…will I ever get over him?

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Answer #1

wow that wasn’t nice of your friend. but if it’s been 9 months there’s not much you can do about it. Try getting on the net again to find someone, then your time is sure to be occupied that way you won’t need to think about him. You don’t need to cut or do drugs… what good will that do besides hurting you more? I don’t know if it’s true that you never stop loving your first love cause I’ve never been in love, but I did meet someone on the net and we dated (this was back in November), didn’t talk a while because of his job (and I thought he didn’t want to talk to me) and I couldn’t stop thinking about him, but I found other things (not self harming activites) that kept me occupied so I didn’t think about him constantly. Today, we are together and I don’t talk to him everyday either, but I occupy myself. Just occupy yourself with GOOD, nonharming activites. Find someone else on the internet (I’m happy) or get out and hang out with friends.

Good Luck! And have good fun!! (no cutting or drugs :>)

Answer #2

I think I know how you feel. you do drungs and cut because it makes you feel like your a step closer to leaving this life, am I right?

Answer #3

Ok, well maybe you should find his screen name, or some way to contact him, because there is no way you can get closure unless you completely stop thinking about him, or unless you talk to him, so attempt to talk about things with him, and get closure, and I promise you… you will be able to move on, and also.. that the only way to get over a guy is to meet a new one, so attempt to go out with the girls to some parties, and find yourself a hott new man.. good luck. :]

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