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my ex wants me back and deep down I want her back but there is a lot of history ??? any 1?
well... reading your previous question... why'd you go out with this new girl, if you still have feelings for your ex?... yeaaa I'm sure there was a conflict behide the reason why you two broke up... but if you two still liked eachother...why'd you move on so quick? - where you trying to make her jealous, for something she did? - well whatever the reason is... you did break up with her for a reason!! now the reason that you want her back... is it cause you miss the fact of being with her OR do you still love her? is the history that you and your ex had, too much for you to handel? do you feel more happy with your new girlfriend or your ex??... ask yourself questions before you make your decission!! - give yourself time to think... and in the end, I'm sure you'll do what's best!!
Going back is really hard but I have just done it with my ex. We were not together for 5 years but always got along well and occasionally um..cough cough lol did the deed lol. We still had feelings there still. It depends on what the history is. If she did something bad or stupid to hurt you then I wouldnt go back if it was the same as in my case (I wasnt mature enough to deal with him) then maybe it will work. Its no bed of roses and we are having a hard time right now but im hopeing we will make it for the kids at least.
there's a reason she is your ex.. if want her back, don't break your new gfs heart and then after awhile you decide you want her back don't go back to her bc that will make you look like a jack@$$. you have to choose, new girlfriend or exgirlfriend and stick with her.
She knows. We are very open about everything in my house. He isnt her biological father and she gets excited when he works away lol. Its a constant struggle trust me lol
It kind of depends on the history. Tell her you need some time to think about it, I'm sure you will come to a conclusion if you think hard enough. Good luck :)
bigmuma now what would you do if your daughter read this LOL...
