My girlfriend doesnt want to let me finger her anymore

My girlfriend doesnt want to let me finger her anymore and she doesnt want to do anything sexual until we get maried because she feels that it is against christianity… Someone help me please I dont know what to do she made this decision last week and im getting desperate, I dont watch porn anymore because I feel too guilty about it. Im going to die she doesnt understand, can someone help me talk her out of her decision

Answer #1

“Im going to die”

uhm, no you’re not going to… it’s called masturbation…

“I dont watch porn anymore because I feel too guilty about it”

excuse me? you have an issue with porn, but not trying to manipulate your girlfriend into doing something she’s not comfortable with? your values are twisted… seriously, if this is a religious thing, I think God would rather you watch porn…

“can someone help me talk her out of her decision”

uhm no, we’re not going to

respect her decision, if you cant deal with it, find a new girlfriend… she’ll be better off without you…

Answer #2

You have to realize, that’s HER values. I have the same values. (Besides kissing)

Don’t be selfish. If you truely love her then you wouldn’t want to force her to do anything.

Answer #3

if she belives its wrong.. well, respect it bro… but also let her know that how come you did it before when you were not maryy..

Answer #4

If its her decision then you have to try and respect that. No matter how hard it is. If you want to do it so bad then try to ease her into it

Answer #5

try and do other romantic things with her. its not always about the sex, trust me. If she is ready to give into you it will be because she wants to. If you pressure her, you will scare her off.

Cuddle and kiss her and tell her how much you desire her but dont go wild and dont pressure her. try and make her WANT it. make it about her needs and not about yours. you’ll see she’ll come around. IF SHE WANTS TO OKAY!

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