okay people im 13 pregnant need some advice and fast!!!
Well, if I was in your situation, I would probably get an abortion. Number one: I wouldn't want to go though the pain of birth at that age (mind you, that doesn't mean I never want to... it will just be more painful when you are young because... for heaven's sakes... you have barely ended puberty). And number 2: can you imagine taking care of a child at your age? Begin by telling your parents... don't expect them to be rational about it. Discuss possible ideas of what you can do with the child. Like I said.. you could have an abortion (don't listen to religious people who tell you that you will go to hell for having an abortion... if there was a hell, every single human being would be going there.) Or... the other choice would be to give the child up for adoption... which wouldn't be a bad idea, either. You can have an open adoption where you get to spend time with your child, even though it has other parents... which, I have found... most people do. Whatever your choice, I wish you the best of luck, if you need anything, feel free to funmail me!
Peace, Jacinda.
congratulations. I no that doesnt seem like the greeting you were expecting but it is important to stay positive. and calm. you need to tell your mom or trusted adult even thou it may be hard you need to do it. find out who the father is if you dont no. reserch oppurtunities and set up an appointment w/ your doctor. you will survive this! dont worry...it may seem all very stressfull and everything but no that I wud never judge you and if you want to funamil me please do I wud be happy to answer any questions please dont feel like your in this alone. and dont let all the ridicule get to you or your baby. you r both two beautiful people and you will get throu this because althought it is a tough battle...u got a good army! please feel free to email me or w/e I will always respond!
CONGRADULATIONS!!! First of all remember this is not the end of the world... Tell your parents or anoter trusted adult, make sure you can get to your appointments,you should probably let the guy know, I know tat seems hard but it will all be ok.one your parents will probably be more supportive than you think...mine were when I told them I was pregnant at 15. and the guy mite surprise you and take responsibility. and last but not least...pray and trust in God!!!
HEY OKAY SINCE YOU ANSWERED MY QUESTION I HELP U. the only thing I can say is that you should tell your parents pronto!!! this wiil need taken care of so that you and the baby stay safe abd healthy. the thing you really should thing of is that if the father of the baby will be there for you and the baby. and if not then he doesnt know what he is missing. but as long as your parents and family is there to support you thats all you need!!!
Just like everyone else said tell your parents yeah they'll prob. be mad at first but they are going to want to help you and support you. I don't think you should feel like you have to get an abortion or put it up for adoption I mean if that's what you want do it but if you want to keep it do it. I'm sure you will have the support of people around you that will want to help you.
congrats and good luck :]
Everyone pretty much summed it up. Tell the parents ASAP!! and most importantly stay positive. I don't know you and you're only 13, but I'm sure you'll make a good mom, a young one, but good. Tell your parents!! They'll be the biggest support if no one else can give it to you.
Good luck to you! and congrats.
well since you went and got it on now look... my best advice is tell your parents. DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTATION!!!if anything keep it and raise it. I hope you r a good mom,
CONGRADULATIONS!!! just because your young dosnt mean you wont b a good mother... it will all come natural ,,at least it did for me at 15.
I just tried sending you a funmail but couldn't... Funmail me. :)
Funmail me for lots of information if you'd like.
Might want to tell your mom and dad.
