Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Parents & Family Questions

My brother is bi and he dosn't know what to do

Okay…My brother is bi and he dosn’t know what to do, he was so relieved when I found out…he says he dosn’t really want to tell our family cause hes afraid that thei’ll judge him. I Keep telling him that they will in the beggining but thei’ll get used to it and it would be all good..what should my brother do?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

well I just realized I liked guys and girls as well . and im going through the same thing as your brother but I think the best thing to do is to tell them I mean there your family there gunna love you know matter what your sexually choice is

Answer #2

Well this depends… how old is he? If he’s young, it’s too soon to start labeling himself. If he’s a little older, is he able to support himself? Financially? Emotionally? He may not be ready to tell your parents yet. Coming out is a process, and he will do it in his own time… Just that you know may be enough for now… Encourage him to try and get in touch with the GLBT community… even if it is only online… Talking to people who have been through it will really help. Oh and asking parents if they will love you even if you were gay, is pretty much telling them that you are…

Answer #3

he should wait till he’s ready to come out. I know he says he’s Bi, but if he is young, he still might change his mind later… not saying that he should change his mind or anything, just saying that teenagers don’t always really know, and they’re into experimenting.

but anyway… it doesn’t seem like he’s ready to come out. Maybe he should test the waters a little bit with the family. like ask them “would you still love me if I was gay”

Answer #4

I agree with ty

Answer #5

He should tell his parents, it will be much worse if they found out on their own.

More Like This
Advisor

Parents & Family

Parenting, Marriage, Childcare

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

FOUND ME

Lost and Found Services, Family Services, Pet Services

Advisor

Nazia Law Associates

Legal Services, Family Law, Islamic Law

Advisor

මයිනිකා.එල්කේ

Muslim Matrimony Services, Islamic Matrimonial Services, Muslim Marriage Website

Advisor

Randall & Bruch, PC

Family Law, Legal Services, Child Support

Advisor

Athena Futures Inc.

Kids Toys, Children's Accessories, Parenting Products