Do you think it's wrong?

Do you think it is wrong to go out with someone who is a little bit older than you? (3-4 years older)

Answer #1

At 13, 3-4 years really is a big age difference..

Answer #2

it depends on how young you are. but if your 18 then no its not wrong

Answer #3

I am 13

Answer #4

ya you should find someone like 14-15 or 13 haha my dad is 43 and my step mom is 31

Answer #5

it varies. like if someone is 21 and that person is 16 thewn it wrong it my point view

Answer #6

It depends - If one is an adult and the other is a minor, yes it’s wrong. But if they’re both adults I see nothing wrong with it, I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 24.

Answer #7

Once he turns 18 and you’re still a minor it could become illegal - If he touched you in any sexual way he’d be charged with statutory rape even if he had your consent. Besides the fact that the maturity difference is quite a bit different, you should really find someone closer to your own age till you’re older.

Answer #8

personally I dont think its wrong.. if your in love .. your in love but if he is over 18 id be careful who you tell and be careful being with him period but I suggest not to be with him at all but its alright …its your choice

Answer #9

At 13 you don’t really have the maturity or understanding to know what real love (like the love between two adults) is. Thirteen is not an age where you need to be getting serious about anything. Since you are so young, even two years is a big deal. There is absolutely a HUGE HUGE difference between a 13 and 15 year old. A 15 and 17 year old is not as bad, but it is still a big difference. 17 and 19 its not that bad. 19 and 21. 21 and 23. You see how the age gap seems to look not as bad the older you get? 54 and 56. It doesn’t even seem like a difference then, does it?

That’s because the older you get, the age gap narrows. It becomes acceptable. But right now, you are way too young to be dating someone 3-4 years older. That is 13 and 17. Sorry, kiddo. Wait until you’re older.

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