He can't finish

ummm lol im a virgin so the whole naked thing isn’t really gonna fly but I’ve tried all of that with out being naked and it still doesn’t work!! Like when we start theres cum but he says it’s like pre or something. I just really don’t know what to do and when we dry hump he gets upset because I can only feel him for a little while and then it’s gone.

Ehhh, I’d hate to say this, but when I was a bit younger (I’m 21 now) if I couldn’t stay horny for a girl, obviously she was doing something wrong. However, maybe you just need to try something different.. like when a girl would just give me a hand job, I thought it was rather boring, she tried new things. She started playing with my balls with her other hand while giving me a handjob. I always did like dry humping when I was a virgin, so I really can’t help you on that part.

Yeah, that’s called precum, which acts as a handy lubricant, and what you might want to do is ask him to get himself off while you watch, this way you can see what he likes and needs in order to finish. I agree with gspro, try new things. Stay in your comfort zone though, so if you’re not ready for something don’t go for it. And yes it’s normal to feel sore for awhile after the first time for anything of that degree. Your body is just getting used to the ‘intruder,’ that’s why most girls don’t orgasm during their first time actually having sex.