How can I tell this girl that I'm not inerested in her anymore? She goes off and partys and then expects me to be her friend with benefits. there is just no commitment.
Call it weird for a guy to say, but I can't stand it anymore.
What would you do?
its not weird at all
and its great that you want committment and not just sex
she sounds like she isnt ready to commit to everyone
but you should probably get yourself checked for any sds just to be sure
because she could also be sleeping with other people
just tell her you want a coommitted relationship
not free sex
something like that, tell her how you feel
u should really just sit down and have a talk with her if you really like her and want to be with her. just explain yr problem to her. tell her how you feel c if you get her to understand why she cant b doing what she is doing. its not everyday you c a guy wanting a commitment and not sex. and I agree with jazlovestoskate. good luck!
Tell her you like her and love the sex, but you don't want an STD. Pick exclusive dating or just pals w/o the benefits.