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heart broken and confused

long story but I will make it short. my so called friend knew that I was in love with this guy. While I was gone in vacation, he hit on her. Some of my so called friends helped them go out and he tried to make out with her, she refused and said NO! because one of her friends liked him. But why couldnt she think of that earlier before anything happened? When I came back from vacation she told me what happened, and I stopped talking to him, and he noticed I was angry. and my friend and him still talked on the phone everyday even though I was back. He would tell her a lot of c* like he didnt care I liked him and to go back to my vacation. Now he is trying to be all nice to me and he is saying that he likes me to other people. so I dont know what to do to beleive him or to just forget about him? Please answer the last question, and tell me what you think about this situation, be sincere? thx so mucho

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Answer #1

seeing as tho he isnt your bf, dont worry about him, forget him becos obviously he doesnt really care about you until its convienient for him, when he feels lonely and has no one else to call. He is using you, dont let him!!! as soon as you left he was hitting on someone and he didnt give a rats either. Just lforget him, you deserve better.

Answer #2

Well one thing for is that if you and your boyfriend are committed to each other then he should of never crossed the boundaries. Even if your friend said “NO” your b/f should of never attempted with any other person. It’s called morals and values but mostly RESPECT. When two people are commtted to each other, and one ends up cheating then the trust is gone. If he did this once and can count on him doing it again. I wouldn’t trust what he saids through your friends. It will hurt your heart however who many more times do you want your heart to hurt again and again with this guy?

Best of Luck in 2007 Dawnslight

Answer #3

Well…maybe his actions while you were gone were just a very immature way of getting your attention…maybe. But if you really like him and you think he is been honest and likes you….TALK if over but tell him….if you go back you are going to take it slow and both get to know each other verally before physically again to build up the trust you lost in him from his actions.

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